Just don't get it

Ok so I just read something that bothered me to the core. A very dear friend of mine has been hurt. Not physically but emotionally. She gave something sacred to a boy only to have him waste it. He told lies about love to someone who was fragile. Now I might be wrong as I don't know the details but this really really bothers me.

I need to know why people cheat? Why if you are in a relationship you can't grow yourself a set of fucking balls and end it instead of going out and hurting that person more than you would have by breaking up? I've been cheated on, I know that horrible feeling in your stomach. That dread that comes over you, the confusion, the anger and the rage. Wondering what it was that you did to deserve the hurt it was causing. What you could have done differently to change it from happening in the first place.

It took a while but I realized that I didn't do anything. I didn't deserve it but that person didn't care about that, they only thought of their selfish selves. A person who cheats holds a spot within me that brings about a feeling of humanity that I don't like. That people are capable of causing so much pain only for a few minutes (let's be honest) of fun.

Even though it wasn't me who was cheated on I feel hurt. I feel cheated and lied to. I believed the crap he spouted about caring about her, telling us not to worry because he wouldn't hurt her. Obviously DB your name I gave you was correct from the start. You are such a fucking douchebag.